When ur Arab Friends want u to be the Matchmaker & among other Arab Social Problems
In this Year alone , since I know too many people because I’m Friendly which are Mostly Guy Friends ( Haraam Police u should not be reading this) . Since I have Tons and Tons of Single Girlfriends Arab Guys always used to check out my Pictures with my Friends or My Facebook Friends List. I mean , I tried 3 times to match people up & frankly speaking it didn’t work so well. I kindly lecture them since I am like an older sister to them that Marriage or Getting Engaged is not what all is cracked up to be , It’s not a Fairy Tale per say. I mean given the age these Young Shabab are in their Early 20′s I tell them to finish School & get a Job 1st & the whole ‘ Naseeb happens when u at least expect it and that Allah is the Best of all planners and it’ll be on his time and not theirs’. I casually joke that I am the Arab Version of Pattie Stanger from that Bravo show Matchmaker Millionaire because its the only think I can come up with. Also I have Single Girlfriends I cannot hang out with anymore one of 2 things 1. Because the community I grew up with has mostly Younger Girls from Mid Teens to Early 20′s and 2. Girls my age are so Desperate they wanna hang out with Guys. I just wanna be able to have fun & enjoy my life & not worry so much about things that Allah has planned for me. If u ask anyone , I’m not a Mean person I’m just brutally Honest & truthful when it comes to these kind of things which sometimes gets me into trouble not every little truthful thing has to be said. Anyways , just wanted to explain to u the Many Arab Problems I’ve seen over the Summer untill next time Salaam.